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JACQUELINE ANN GOODS is the birth name that was given to me, but for those who love me and know me best, I am Mommy, Granny, Jackie or Aunt Jackie even. I am somewhat of a big deal when you think about it. I am my parent's oldest child, as well as the eldest of the grandchildren. I am literally the first cousin, so cousins, don't be jealous.
I was born on December 26, 1954 in Baltimore, Maryland and in a search for peace, I took my final breath on May 22, 2021. I am the proud daughter of the late John T. Sr. and Lou Ann Goods. I do not need to talk much about the great foundation that was laid for me as child, just know that I come from very loving family, a bit crazy but they are loving just the same.
I was educated in the Baltimore City Public School System, and I am a 1973 graduate of Venable High School. Following High School, I worked several jobs. One of those jobs was the Hecht Company, some of you have probably never even heard of Venable High School or the Hecht Company, and if you have, you are telling your age. I also worked at Stella Maris, LB&B Associates and I have even done day care for which I received certifications for my work with children. I most recently enjoyed my position with Glamm Star Events where I assisted my daughter with event set ups and management. My daughter would say I was something like a micro-boss but that is okay because the end result was always a job well done.
At a very young age, I accepted Jesus Christ into my life and was baptized at Pleading Holiness Church under the leadership of the late Bishop James Jackson and for that, I am forever thankful. As I continued to grow in Christ I became an Active member and visitor of several different churches, but I found my home at Greater Paradise Christian Center where Bishop Shawn L. Bell is the leader and I trust that he is going to give a mighty word today.
Going to church on Sunday mornings brought me so much joy, and I am rejoicing as you are reading this because I have made it over! But I sure am going to miss seeing my church family, hearing my pastor preach, listening to the choir sing and watching my beautiful babies dance and I know those babies are going to show off today. As I mentioned, over the years I have held several positions with several different companies. However, the position that I cherished the most was that of being a mother and grandmother. There was no other thing in this world that brought me more joy. Now don't get me wrong, it has also brought me some pain and sometimes LOTS of it, but it is a job that I would do over and over again. I loved my children so much that I often found myself taking in their friends, and their friend's friends, but I have enjoyed every minute of it.
Now there are other things that I loved doing besides loving on my children and grandchildren. I loved doing things such as taking the babies to the park, talking on the phone with some of my favorite people (my best friends), crocheting and last but not least, cleaning up. I loved me a clean house. Some would even say that I was a bit obsessive when it came to cleaning because no matter where I went, you could always find me cleaning up and sweeping people out the door. You could often find me at my daughter's house running things even though she thought she was grown. My sons thought they were grown too, but I still had to show them a few things. However, they all knew that Mommy would always have their backs.
So to my wonderful children, Lionel, Ricardo and Aknyah, please know that i loved you the most, I loved you with every ounce of my being, and if I could have stayed on this side forever, I would have done so just for you. I am so sorry that I had to leave you without warning and I know that you may be wondering what to do now. I will tell you now like I have always told you, give it all to God and allow him to be your comforter. Mommy was tired and I needed to get my miracle rest. I pray that you will understand this one day.
To all of Granny's babies, continue to make me proud and do what's right. I hope that my time here was beneficial to you all and that I taught you the right things to do. I pray that I was able to be an example to you. Just remember to put God first in all that you do, and he will take care of the rest, and finally, to those of you that I called my sons and daughters, you know exactly who you are, please know that you will always hold a place in my heart. I will still be watching over all of you as I now sit with the most high.
I am now reuniting with those who have gone before me, Pop Pop (John T. Goods Sr.), Granny (Lou Ann Goods); my grandsons, Lil Boo Boo (Ricardo Goods Jr.) and Darnell Goods; brothers, Calvin Jr., and Michael Harris.
Although I am finally at peace, I leave behind to cherish my memories, my two sons, Lionel Goods and Ricardo Goods Sr. (Tyshika); one daughter, Aknyah Sydnor (Darryl); my six brothers, John T. Jr., Charles, Bryan, Leon Goods, Bobby and Donald Harris; sister, Rosalind Hall; grandchildren who have been such a special part of me, Darius, Davon, Myah, Jordyn, Jaylin, Micah, Devin, Mi'kel, Khole, Jabrielle, Ashlyn, Darryl III, Damari, Nova, Seven and Iyona; great grandchildren, Darnell Jones, Lauren Jones, Dayclon Jones and La'Ronn Thomas; aunts, Daisy Johnson, Angela Smith and I dare not forget one of my best friends on this side; my aunt Carolyn Thomas, you have simply been my every morning cup of tea all my life. My God children, Zaria Pettigen and Ethan Thomas, I love you.
To my two other best friends, Barbara and Sharon, I will miss you both very much. to my nieces and nephews, there are far too many to name, but please know that Aunt Jackie loves each and every one of you. As for the rest of my cousins, family and friends who have impacted my life, I love you and I will see you all on the other side where we will all rejoice in that great getting up morning!
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